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Video 1 Transcript
You should avoid even the appearance of evil, and in that I mean do not hang out with male friends one-on-one by yourself, especially late into the night, because it can look really bad for you. It can put you in a dangerous situation where someone might try to pull a move on you, or you might start catching feelings. The person that you are with should be the person that you go to, and males that you are friends with should be friends only in large group settings, because it's a sign of loyalty, and it builds trust. There really isn't any reason to have deep connections, deeper connections with males than with your significant other.
Video 2 Transcript
I love being married. It's the best thing ever. The best way I can sum it up is like you're literally with your best friend 24-7 besides when you guys go to work or go to school. Don't go to bed angry. What we like to do is have a love jar. So we write each other like love notes or things that we love about each other. So if we're like having a hard time, we just go to that jar and pick out a note from each other and it's been super helpful. And yeah, I just oh my gosh, I love my husband so much. I hope you guys can find or like you found someone that you're extremely attracted to in all kinds of ways spiritually, physically, emotionally. It's great.
Video 3 Transcript
One point of stress in a marriage can be knowing how to handle anniversaries, how to handle holidays, how to handle Valentine's Day, how to handle birthdays, because you may have two totally different sets of expectation. One of you may have come from one family where there are certain traditions or you saw your parents do certain things and the other one is coming from a totally different culture and on top of that you may have different expectations for what you want. Somebody may, one of you may like getting gifts and the other person may not really care. Obviously we've heard a lot about like love languages and things like that so that one of the most helpful things is that like a year or a year and a half into our marriage we just sat down with each other and we said what are our expectations for these events and we just talked about it and we made a plan. That's helpful.
Video 4 Transcript
So ladies, what do you do if your husband doesn't pick up his socks or his dirty clothes? Here's some advice. Without him knowing, and without saying anything, pick up those items and put them in a secluded place in the house. Don't put them in the laundry hamper, don't clean them, put them somewhere where he cannot find them, and then eventually he'll start wondering, where are my socks? Where are my ties? Where's my underwear? Maybe he might find them, then maybe it might be a perfect time to say, oh I've been putting them over here because I thought you wanted them on the floor and I just want to keep the floor clean and so I just thought I'd put them over here. That probably will help to change things pretty quickly, well you won't have to pick anything up off the floor anymore.
