How to be a good husband - Marriage Video Transcripts
Video 1 Transcript
I think some key points of being a good husband are to be there for your wife. They go through a lot emotionally and lots of ups and downs and it's important to be there for every single one. Know that you can't take every challenge, like you can't just make everything better by cracking a joke or smiling or something. Sometimes they just need to be held, your wife just needs you. Also just realize that there's more to marriage than sex and knowing their feelings and their insecurities really makes you seem more valuable as a husband and more of a trust, a trusting resource than just a companion or a roommate. You're their eternal person, so stick with that.
Video 2 Transcript
Be honorable and be proactive. Don't be lazy, don't be a slob, don't be slothful. Be proactive, be sharp, be mature and be proactively seeking how you can bless your wife's life, how you can make her life better and make your kids better. If your wife sees that your priorities are her and your kids more than whatever your hobby is and that you're willing to sacrifice your personal desires to make other people's lives better, that will really go a long way.
Video 3 Transcript
Number one, you must completely and fully love God and are willing to serve Him no matter what. First, He comes first. Second, you must understand the roles and responsibilities He wants you to fulfill in that type of a relationship. Third, fulfill those roles and responsibilities. Fourth, when it comes to raising a family, you must know what is most important.
Video 4 Transcript
In a typical society, again it varies by culture, but the husband is typically responsible for guiding the home and for bringing money in. That's the typical responsibility. And if that's the case in your situation, understand that yes, you have the responsibility as the lead of the home, but that does not mean that you're the boss. You and your wife are equal. So, equal might mean you have different responsibilities, but you share equally. You both have equal authority, and you treat each other like you're equal. And you don't have your, oh, I'm in charge, so I get to look at the numbers thing. I run the finances because she doesn't. No, you're equal, and you share with each other and everything. Thank you.
Video 5 Transcript
I think it's important to be a good husband. It's important to work together with your partner. Growing up in Tonga, it's traditionally, there's certain things that are traditionally for husbands to do and wives to do in the marriage, but I believe that it's important to come together as a team and work together. We have a one-year-old daughter and both of myself and my wife works, so we do a lot of things together and we take turns, you know, like changing the baby and cooking. Both of us do all those things. There's no such thing as like this is what the wife do and or this is what the husband do, you know. We always have to work together as a team so that we can be successful and we find it very successful.
Video 6 Transcript
I think putting your wife's needs before your own, striving to be selfless, helping around the house with cleaning dishes, taking out trash, vacuuming the floor, doing laundry, I think those are all ways to be a good husband. I think also being patient and never shouting or hitting is another good way to be a good husband. As a husband you should try to be the best example you can be for your wife and if you have any children as well. I think also you should try to be happy and optimistic. That lightens the burden on your spouse quite a bit.
Video 7 Transcript
Hi, I don't know if I'm supposed to be on here because this is for how to be a good husband but one way that's really appreciative is if your husband is thoughtful. If he tries to think about the little things that you would enjoy or even if he opens the door for you or just does little things it really helps the, it really helps the woman, the wife to be appreciative and she should be appreciative and say thank you, but just to show thoughtfulness and little things just try and make her happy. She'll really love that.
Video 8 Transcript
Being there, not always, but being with her in the precise and in the right moment will help your wife to feel that you are there. Sometimes you work, you study, you're doing lots of things, but if you arrive home and you are with her like for 30 or one hour, but really, really enjoying and passing time with her, she will feel that love. And I think that's the best advice of how to be a good husband, because that's what I'm doing. I'm really busy right now, but being for her, I'm trying to pay attention to the details. That helps us a lot.
Video 9 Transcript
Buyer flowers. Sounds cliche, but it works.
Video 10 Transcript
Well, first of all, you have to show how much love and how grateful you are for your wife. You have to tell her why you love her and thank you every time she does something for you. They are amazing angels sent from God and honestly, I love my wife with all my heart. So, if you want to be a good husband, show her and tell her how much you love her.
