DTR stories - Dating Video Transcripts
Video 1 Transcript
My boyfriend and I now, we were dating for about two months at the time, and then I was just like, all right, are we gonna be official or not? And so I actually was praying, and then during the prayer I just felt to ask him, and so when I like came up for my prayer, I just looked at him, and I was like, so are we dating or not? And then he was like, oh yeah, I've considered you my girlfriend. And I was like, what the heck? And he's like, I've been telling people. I'm like, you told others, but not me. Anywho, kind of funny, but it was good.
Video 2 Transcript
This is so embarrassing. I'm on like a third, maybe even fourth date with this guy that I met online, and we're sitting, we're having dinner, super low key, and he just blurts out, by the way, I changed my relationship status on Facebook. I was like, cool. And he's like, to in a relationship. Awesome. With who? You. And that's how I was in my first relationship with some guy. Whoops, didn't even know his last name.
Video 3 Transcript
So a DTR that I had, um, was actually just a few weeks ago and it was at a train station. So something I recommend is always do it where there's like something that backs up to what you're doing so that you have like a reason to not prolong it because the longer it goes on, usually the more it hurts, I would say. But it was actually just a really good discussion where we kind of talked about each other's feelings about the relationship and what they saw out of it and what I saw out of it. And so it actually went super well. Not all DTRs go very well at when you're trying to actually define the relationship as we shouldn't be dating anymore. But I think in this case, the reason why it works so well is there was really a mutual understanding of there was a lot of respect for each person, but it just wasn't the right person at the right time. Usually I feel like they're pretty negative, but that was a positive DTR story.
Video 4 Transcript
If someone is not willing to have a DTR conversation with you and just kind of be clear about what they want from you, I would consider that a red flag. Not necessarily like, hey, you have to turn and run, but definitely pay attention to that.
