I personally think that dating apps can be a really beneficial thing, but in moderation and you have to understand what your relationship with that dating app is. I think one thing that you need to avoid with dating apps like Tinder, Mutual, is the idea of something else is out there that's better. So you're on a date going, oh I have all these other people that I have on my account, that could be better. But no, enjoy your date and be present.
I have been using Mutual on and off for about 3 or 4, maybe 5 years. In that time I have had one, admittedly very frustrating, like 2 month relationship from it. So, maybe just focus on meeting people in real life. That's what I would do.
Personally, my favorite dating app is Hinge. I've definitely had the most success on there. I think that there's great people on there. I think it's a great interface with everything that they have set up on there to get to know someone. And yeah, that's definitely my favorite. I also like Mutual if you are LDS and looking for an LDS partner, but yeah.
Mutual is a great dating app, if used correctly. There are a lot of people searching for different things on Mutual and so a couple things that you need to do is first off make your profile look appealing, get the best photos of yourself, selfies in the mirror, probably not the best idea. Recognize that it just really depends on people. People like different things and are looking for different things and so you can get your feelings hurt if you're not prepared to not have a ton of people swipe up on you or you might have a ton of people swipe up on you. It just depends so you just got to be ready for everything. Honestly just make sure you get to know the person that you text them for a little bit, possibly even get their snapchat so they see your real person before you take them out on a date so it's not awkward and you have things to talk about.
What I really wish every dating app would have or at least one would have if we could have a rating system of people we've dated and it would be anonymous feedback you know four or five stars something like that of you know and why and maybe different areas or sections within this feedback of this person who you know we've gone out with just for the next person to say yeah this is a great guy or yeah this guy's nuts don't go out with him but I think that would just be a genuinely useful tool and I haven't seen any app that has anything like it and I can see how it could be um a little degrading to somebody but dude rate me you know I think the better matches would end up better that way.
So Tinder is a little bit different than mutual. Oh, it's a lot different than mutual. The expectations and the reasons why people are on it are very different. It's a great place to meet a lot of people, but you also got to be very careful. It really just depends on your values and what you want as a person. Obviously those differ and whatever you want is what you want. If you're really focused on meeting people at the same, like religious beliefs or other things like that, mutual or hinge or even bumble are great for that because they have the option of what religion you are. Um, when Tinder's more focused on non-religious things.
I actually met my wife off of Mutual. It was great. I mean, it's turned out great because of it, so highly recommend getting on there. The way I looked at it was that it was a way to meet people that I wouldn't have met any other way. I was meeting people that I wouldn't meet in my ward or at school or just being social or whatever, so it gives you an extra chance to meet the one.
I met my wife on a dating app, so it depends on what you're going for, but all in all, 10 out of 10.
My best friend's brother met his wife on mutual, and they are very happy. And my brother-in-law met his wife on mutual, and they are very happy. So, that's my- that is my review. Happiness.
Everyone's probably heard about the app Mutual and I definitely say that Mutual is a really good app to use if you're if you want to do dating within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Mutual is where many members of the church meet each other and I've met so many really great guys on there and my brother has as well met some really nice young ladies and I've been on a lot of dates and it's been really good so I definitely highly recommend Mutual. If you want to go on some really sweet dates watch out there are some some people but Mutual overall the app works phenomenally and it's really user-friendly and really easy to navigate and you know immediately when you get a match or if you don't pretty simple.
The only dating app I ever used was an app called Mutual. It's catered towards members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and I used it right after my ex broke up with me. I did meet a couple cool people on Mutual. I did meet this one guy that was really cool and really nice and was himself, but most of the guys I ended up meeting were not that great of people. I had to block a lot of people. If you're going to go on a dating app, just be very, very careful and try to listen to the Spirit and just feel what's right for you. Just really watch out for red flags and just be careful.