Dating advice for women - Dating Video Transcripts
Video 1 Transcript
Some advice I have while dating is to know your values and set boundaries early on for yourself. You don't even necessarily have to communicate those. I struggled with healthy dating relationships for a long time and it wasn't until I set boundaries for myself to follow that I was able to start creating healthy relationships. Whether they lasted or not, I was able to still have very, very positive experiences once I created boundaries and rules that kept me safe, kept me in a place where I could create those healthy relationships.
Video 2 Transcript
Obviously, I am not a woman, so it is, uh, I may not be qualified to offer dating advice for women, but something that I have always appreciated is whenever a girl has asked me on a date. I've had a lot of girls ask me if it's okay to ask guys on dates, and I've always said yes, like it's fine. As a guy, I've always appreciated it. It takes some of the pressure off for us, but at the same time, I'm definitely okay with still paying if you were to ask me on a date. I'd say just being open and communicating that in the beginning as you plan the date. Just ask, hey, I mean, I'm, you know, if you ask someone on a date, you should be willing to pay, but just ask if they, uh, how they feel about it. Are they, would they like to pay? And being willing, just being easy and flexible and easy to work with, I think is a good, important thing to remember.
Video 3 Transcript
My advice for girls when dating is like you need to be like stupid clear. You need to be ultra ultra clear as to what you're doing because guys are dumb and they don't pick up on your advice or their your signals or whatever and then everybody's confused. Like if you want to go on another date your best bet is just to say you do or you don't. Like you need to be ultra ultra clear because guys are terrible at trying to understand your code or well I sent this in a text so you now know that I'm not just be like super super clear and if you're not interested like just tell the dude I'm I'm sure they'll be fine like it'll be okay if you just say I don't want to go on dates with you don't just like disappear.
Video 4 Transcript
So, obviously, I'm a guy. My advice is going to be different than a girl's advice. However, this is going to be from a guy's perspective and what they would like. For one, don't make the guy be the one to do everything. You know, if the guy is the one constantly asking to hang out, constantly giving compliments, constantly being the one to initiate any conversation, they're going to feel like you don't like them. They're going to feel used. Don't do that. They're going to lose interest. Don't play games. You know, don't do things to make the guy mad just to see how they react, to see if they care. Like, that will never end up well. No guy likes that, and it's going to push them away because they're going to be constantly getting annoyed and mad because you're doing things to get them annoyed and mad, and they're going to hate it, and they're going to stop. Just be sweet. Be kind. Put in just as much effort as they are. If they're being nice, complimenting you, you know, return the favor in some way. Maybe do the same thing later on. I don't know. If they're the one asking to hang out and go on dates, do the same thing to them. Just be equal. Do exactly what they're doing, and they'll feel cared for, and they'll like you. Just be sweet.
Video 5 Transcript
So I went to a single adult conference and they gave us like a five page questions to ask the person you're dating all the way to when you get engaged what questions to ask. It was amazing but again on Pinterest you can get a lot of the questions even online. I found that questions are really important because you ask a question and then that person, the guy that you're with, will ask you the same question and get your viewpoint on it and I mean you can have long discussions over just a few questions and really get to know who you're dating and get to know their likes and dislikes just by hearing about their answers to questions and you could also ask another question and piggyback off of that question but questions are really important. If you don't ask them and ask them the whole time you're dating then you're not going to get to know that person.
Video 6 Transcript
One thing I would recommend for women in regards to dating is to not be afraid to ask someone out on a date. I know in some of our cultures, in the U.S. at least, you know, it's traditional for the guys to ask the girls on a date. And some girls can be kind of, you know, sheepish or shy about asking someone on a date. But I met a girl once and she was just like, you could tell she was just like looking for someone to get married to, looking for her sweetheart. And she would go person to person, asking them questions, like deep questions, you know, they're on the spot, asking people about their goals, their plans. I saw her like a year later on campus, arm in arm with what looked like was the love of her life. And it worked for her. So I would not view yourself as being victim to whether or not you get asked on a date. If there's a guy you're interested, you can go after him. And, you know, obviously you don't want to seem desperate, but you don't have to sit back.
Video 7 Transcript
My biggest dating advice is to give guys a chance. I know that they're all like really nervous and sometimes it's good if you're like sweet and approachable because then it makes it easier for the guys to ask you on a date. But yeah, definitely follow, you know, tips as far as like meeting in more of a public place or something first. But yeah, always give guys, I would say, a first date and then just be honest with them about how you feel because the worst thing you can do is just lead a guy on and break their heart later down the road. So I was always just really honest with guys and if I wasn't feeling it, I'd tell them or if I was open to more dates and I'd tell them. So just be honest, don't be scared to tell them how you really feel.
Video 8 Transcript
My dating advice for other women would be to not let a bad date or a bad experience with a guy make you feel less important or valued. I've seen this in myself and in other girls. Sometimes we think just because a guy is not interested that means that maybe we're not cool enough, not pretty enough, not interesting enough, but that's just not true. That just means it's not the right person. But women are so cool, we are so awesome, so are men. I think this advice probably could go for both men and women.
Video 9 Transcript
I've been in a couple interesting friendships slash situations with these guys and it was very clear this happened once, probably twice, where the guy really liked me, he had feelings, and I thought that maybe I did too, but that ended up not being the case. There's a difference between having a good time and enjoying being around that person and wanting to date them. I think it's challenging when you feel the pressure of somebody else liking you, but you need to remember that if you don't like them back, then you don't like them back, right? And that's different than I enjoy their company, it's I want to date this person. So if somebody says that they like you, that's great, but that isn't a guarantee that you have to like them back.
Video 10 Transcript
So when I was dating people off of mutual, like just going around and dating just these random dudes off of mutual that I matched with, I had a few experiences that were a little bit scary. I was at the time kind of mostly dating to distract myself or to try to heal from my previous relationship and it was really hard, but I wasn't in the right mind space a lot of the time and I didn't care if I went on group dates. Like I wanted to just be one-on-one with guys. Don't do that. I don't think you should be one-on-one with a guy until you have a more serious relationship with them. Group dates are a lot more fun than, or they're just a lot of fun and I didn't think that in high school. I thought that was super lame and even at the beginning of college, but go on group dates. It's safer and it's a safer way to get to know that person and learn to trust them and don't be alone with them on a date until you're ready.
Video 11 Transcript
My biggest piece of advice for women dating is to trust your instincts. If you don't feel right about a situation, then it's okay to cancel or to not say yes. But if you feel really good about it, then go for it. Just to follow how you're feeling and to, you know, make sure that you're staying true to who you are and the kind of people that you want to be around.
Video 12 Transcript
hello friends this is vipin tiwari from india this is my suggestion for all the women's that your life is not a coach of railway so never allowed entry for everyone the restricted entry is lifelong for you so beware from cheaters and time passers in don't allow them in your life the very loose point of woman is that compliments on her beauty most of the cheaters and time passers use mostly these tools to impress and trapped the woman so be aware from the cheaters and don't allow them in your life thank you
Video 13 Transcript
Dating advice I have for you from a man's perspective is honestly the same advice I gave to men on this platform, which is, you know, dating success in my experience comes down to mostly things done behind the scenes. What I would do is pay attention and try to see what the opposite sex wants in a partner, in, you know, a girlfriend, a wife, and cultivate those qualities in yourself. And if that means, you know, taking a step back and maybe not dating actively for a while and just working on yourself, so be it. I think you'll be far better off in the long run.
Video 14 Transcript
Some advice I wish I had while I was dating was to not be afraid to say no. I know it might seem kind of rude or harsh, but if you don't feel comfortable going on a date or you are not interested in that person, it's a lot easier and a lot better to maybe just say no up front and then to either get stuck in a situation that could be bad or even just something that's uncomfortable or being someplace that you don't necessarily want to be. I think that's something that I wish I would have done a little bit more. And also, just tell someone when you're not interested. It also might seem kind of harsh, but if you tell them up front, a lot of times people are more happy with honesty than hurt by it.
Video 15 Transcript
I think that you should take turns making the dates and that's what we did. My first date with my husband was he sent me a text message and pirate talk and asked me to come out to his ship for dinner and then find buried treasure and so it was just like so amazing and we dressed up and then the next day I made a scavenger hunt at the mall where we were together and we had to get pictures of us together at different places at the mall and if you go on Pinterest you can get a lot of great creative dating ideas and there's also something called dating divas and there are great ideas in that too. It's just so much more fun if the girl creates a date too and make it interesting along with the guy. Just be creative and be simple. It doesn't have to be extravagant.
