For me, I think that God can speak to me when I try to do things that help me get closer to him. That is, if I read my writings, if I try to stay in sacred places, in places where I can feel his spirit, he can speak to me. And also, every time I pray with a sincere heart and with a real intention to speak to him, I know that he can speak to me and that he can also comfort me, help me, and support me. It is really through prayer that my connection with him improves.
I find that most often, the way God speaks to me is through good feelings, joy, and also he gives me good ideas. That is to say, he gives me ideas to serve his children. And I heard a quote a few years ago, actually several years ago, which says to never repress or ignore a generous thought. And when we don't ignore these feelings or thoughts, it is through these feelings that God can help us help others. And it is often by helping others that we also help ourselves, that we find joy and that we sometimes find ways to get out of our trials, I don't know, our difficulties.